Essays

The optimized life won't save you.

(Note to self).

Feb 28 •

Adding zest to existence.

Per Charlotte Brontë.

Jan 31 •

I want to be less likable.

But kinder, too.

Dec 23, 2024 •

I don't want a lot for Christmas, just everything.

I need it all! Or do I?

Nov 25, 2024 •

Wait, I thought your 30s were for feeling *less* lost?

Oct 25, 2024 •

I wish everything made me feel as good as The Great British Bake Off.

Plus, some updates from a few quiet weeks.

Oct 11, 2024 •

The internet is a hallway where the lights are always on.

Plus, five ways I re-set.

Oct 3, 2024 •

Good morning, kitchen! Goodnight, kitchen!

The power of a little light.

Aug 16, 2024 •

Down, down, down the rabbit hole she goes.

Aug 14, 2024 •

Ignore the mess!

Why are we all so weird about having guests over?

Aug 2, 2024 •

Am I still an influencer?

The question of the summer!

Jul 19, 2024 •

What does it mean to recognize yourself?

On seeing myself and feeling pride instead of panic.

Jun 28, 2024 •

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