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I loved this Olivia. The thing about spring making you feel like you can do anything? So true. Also the point about how aging is a privilege. My best friend of 25 years died unexpectedly in January. I've read your stuff for a long time now, so I know you understand young loss. Aging is a privilege, and not all of us get to experience it. I know I will probably take life for granted at some point again, but I'll always remember I shouldn't because of that loss.

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Mar 16Liked by Olivia Muenter

Sending you so much love, Julia. ❤️

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I'm so sorry, Julia. I know it's such a specific and horrible type of pain. Sending you love <3

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GAHH, this is so good Olivia!! I could screenshot and re-post pretty much every single one of these. What an intentional and valuable round-up, thank you for sharing with us. Happy Birthday Lovely! 🩷

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Thank you so much, Lauren! I appreciate you!

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Really great newsletter - every single word resonated! (And happy birthday!)

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Thank you, Grace <3 <3

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Mar 19Liked by Olivia Muenter

I recently read Becky Chambers' A Psalm for the Wild-Built which features a God of Small Comforts in the story-world's religion, and I genuinely believe that taking comfort in small things - fun dresses and cute thrifted knick knacks and cups of tea - are the things that keep us in the present and make life bearable on the worst days.. and the best

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Totally agree with you. It's a cliche, I guess, but it's true: It's always the little things <3

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Hey Olivia - we have the same birthday! March 14th is a great day to be born. I thought about 5 pieces of wisdom from 55 years, but I haven't. Maybe I will next week. You're good inspiration!

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Hey!!! Happy (very belated) birthday!! Did you always really enjoy your birthday being on Pi Day growing up?

PS: Thank you for the kind words!!

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Mar 18Liked by Olivia Muenter

Wow. Just wow. Thank you for this - it was needed in more ways than you could ever know <3

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Mar 18Liked by Olivia Muenter

and happy belated birthday!

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You are so so welcome. <3

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Mar 17Liked by Olivia Muenter

This list is a keeper, 100%. Thank you so much Olivia, and wishing you a very happy belated birthday!

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Thank you, Amy!

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Mar 16Liked by Olivia Muenter

Happy birthday and thank you for sharing your 31 things with us! “Aging is a privilege” is a beautiful mantra— which I’m stealing as I round the corner on my next bday for sure

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It's definitely something I have to remind myself of every day! <3

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Mar 15Liked by Olivia Muenter

These are all great! And as a 45yo, I endorse that aging is a privilege. Happy Birthday 🎈

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Thank you, Debbi! For all the support!

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Happy Birthday!

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Thank you!

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Mar 15Liked by Olivia Muenter

The bread! Over the past few years I've developed a bit of a mantra - "If it's bread it should taste good." I've tried to follow that and avoid deeply unsatisfying breads and bread variants and substitutes. Let's end joyless bread.

Happy birthday, Olivia!

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This is VERY true! Love this.

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Happy Birthday, Olivia! These are all so spot on <3

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Thank you, Michelle! I appreciate it!

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Mar 15Liked by Olivia Muenter

Thank you for 12-15 :) But really, loved them all, your writing is a gift!

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12-15 were also my fave, so thank YOU!

Appreciate it so much.

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Mar 15Liked by Olivia Muenter

I love your list! And as someone who has 2 decades on you, I can agree on so many of your listed items. Congrats to you on figuring out what took me much longer! Aging is most definitely a privilege ❤️

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Thank you, Lesli! <3 <3

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Whole wheat wraps are TERRIBLE!!!

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